“And that was the first time I remember her calling my voice ‘the gift’. Thereafter she always used that term when she talked about my music, and I think she did so on purpose, to remind me that the music in me was something special given by God. My job was to care for it and use it well; I was its bearer, not its owner.”~Johnny Cash
Wow, what better way to cultivate the inherent gifts in our children (or grandchildren) than to call those gifts, ‘the gift’. I think about the influence my mom had in my life while I was painting, drawing, playing the piano or other crazy projects/life decisions and the unending words of encouragement from her when I was unsure. I think about the influence that I have on my own children and their friends. Are my own words and actions bringing out the best in them?
The above painting depicts a child safely nestled in the arms of his mother. More specifically, it is a self-portrait of myself holding my youngest child, Charlie, the last of ten. What does this painting mean to me? It is about the quiet moment, that seems to pass way too quickly…of being in the presence of one of the most important people in my life. It is a passing glimpse that slips into a time that a child may not remember but will lead to the formation of a healthy adult. It is a time of prayer. It is about how a mother influences a child.
Years ago I met a woman who could say nothing but negative things about her 5 year old daughter. What a shame! It taught me something, though, as a young mother, to speak that which is encouraging, not disparagingly of your child.
Last thought-there’s nothing like holding a peacefully sleeping child, especially after a day of adventures! You know that he was just running around, learning about the things around him, getting into things and maybe, perhaps, really giving you a run for your money! Hope you enjoy this painting, because it is something that touches me deep within and there will be more to come!
Until next time, hold your children or grandchildren a little closer, for time does not stop, Or, give them a call and speak those encouraging words!
Love,
Holly
This article is dedicated to my mom. Happy Birthday!
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